俗世里的烟火气,清明将至
<span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">前段时间,本地政府是以老太太征兵的精神</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">在本省率先提出了清明关闭墓园</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我第一时间看到消息后,便在办公室挑起话题</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">难不成墓园的接触空间还比不上菜场和超市</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">菜场和超市都开放了,为何关闭墓园</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">有个岁数大点的同事说,大概是防止外地亲友借机聚会</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我们一听,觉得有道理又没道理</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">因为只限本地亲友参加,便可简单解决这个问题</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">刚刚妈妈打电话来问寒问暖</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我说到清明前不能去看爸爸了,之后又不太好补</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">因为家乡有规矩,不能清明后去拜祭先人</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">妈妈说已经跟弟弟商量过</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">届时就在他们住的小区烧些纸钱</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我忽然又不正经了</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">跟妈说,一定要叮嘱弟弟千万别换地方</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">一定要在之前的老地方进行</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">历来阴阳两界规矩相仿</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">爸爸提款要认邮戳的,邮寄地址决不能有丁点差错</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">妈妈听了哈哈大笑,视频里暴露出稀疏的牙齿</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">整起来算,十年了</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">十年前的春天,爸爸离开了我们</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">那个春天,是我今生记忆的春天里最深刻,又是最模糊的</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">因为除了一场历历在目的送别</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">那个春天还发生过什么,我真的是一点都想不起来了</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">据说政府在网上开辟了悼念空间</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">但小民们总觉得不太靠谱</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我们曾经的领导也是个又孝顺又爱搞笑的</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">记得他以前说过要烧个美女秘书给他父亲</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">那会觉得很搞笑,但是现在觉得问题来了</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">我没给爹烧过电脑、手机、网络、4G、5G……</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">悼念,其实不该是做给活人看的</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">网上悼念,总感觉没把握先人们</span><br style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;"><span style="font-family: Tahoma, "Microsoft Yahei", Simsun;">是否能像从前那般感应到大家真切地怀念</span><p></p> 很现实的问题,马上清明了,因为疫情,让这个重要的民俗活动也受到了影响{:4_204:} 红影 发表于 2020-3-19 20:27很现实的问题,马上清明了,因为疫情,让这个重要的民俗活动也受到了影响
据乐观估计,国内疫情应该已经完全控制住了 疫情当前,连祭拜扫墓都不能自主了 我每年清明都赶不上回去扫墓,只能提前一个月或者秋天回去祭拜,也是无奈 香染 发表于 2020-3-19 20:55
疫情当前,连祭拜扫墓都不能自主了
{:4_203:}没办法 香染 发表于 2020-3-19 20:57
我每年清明都赶不上回去扫墓,只能提前一个月或者秋天回去祭拜,也是无奈
心到了即可{:4_180:} 叶云峰 发表于 2020-3-19 20:43
据乐观估计,国内疫情应该已经完全控制住了
嗯嗯,现在的情况好了很多,很多单位都复工了,现在只要防着境外输入就可以了。 听一句预约扫墓时间,不知具体的,今年也是父亲十周年祭日,妈妈之前还说要办的,父亲在母亲心里总是放不下的痛,就怕她伤心。
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